how to receive princess treatment

 

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Today's article is how to receive princess treatment. We all grew up watching Disney movies and wishing for our lives to be like theirs, and there is no room for negativity on this blog, so I'll be telling you how to feel like a Disney Princess and how to achieve this yourself, as well as talking about my own personal experiences. This article was taken from my Spacehey blog that I wrote but I decided I'm going to re-write it here instead and make it way more concise. 

Today's article will be broken down into three sections: my experience, what changed and how to receive princess treatment.

MY EXPERIENCE:

In this section, I'll be sharing with you guys what happened in my life that had made me come to the conclusion of writing this particular article today.

• So growing up, I dealt with boys acting out and being basically horrible human beings towards not only me, but other girls, making them feel less special due to their physical appearance. 
• I had friends back in 7th-9th grade, who would constantly leave me out, only hang out with me when there was no one else around or when they stopped being friends with the other person
• I had people pleasing tendencies for such a long time and sometimes I see it reoccurring again but I've learnt to finally stop it, I felt like the only way I could get people to like me was through going out of my way to do more, even when they didn't appreciate it.
• I had friends who would talk about me behind my back and I would still go and hang out with them because I feared being alone
• Sometimes, I would be the last to be picked or the second to last for literally no reason, for some reason, kids will just pick a random kid that they think is not cool and just attach that label to them - that was what happened to me
• I dealt with people calling me a 'snitch' for speaking out instead of suffering in silence about what they were doing to me
• Now, that I glowed up, people treat me better and I even had a ton of guys on Snapchat viewing my public story and saying out of pocket things just because I look better now
• I was considered the 'therapist' friend and even then, they still kicked me out of the group as I was always 'too negative'

WHAT CHANGED?

• I grew up watching how my Dad spoiled my Mom, got her the Dior perfume, a wardrobe so big that she still has a ton of clothes she doesn't wear and basically anything she ever wanted, so I realised why should I settle for less when I see what my Dad does for my Mom?
• I learnt the importance of self worth, before I can make anyone happy, I must make myself happy
• I realised that my beauty shouldn't be defined by others, someone shouldn't have to tell me I'm pretty for me to internalise and accept that I'm pretty
• I started going out of my way to heal my inner child, watching old childhood shows and everything
• I choose to stay single until I find my ideal guy, it's better to wait and be satisfied than to rush into things and regret it, there's nothing wrong with being a late bloomer
• I started taking myself out on dates, I don't need someone else to take me out on a date
• I started repeating positive things to myself and getting into healthier habits
• I surrounded myself with better people and cut off those who were hurting my mental health
• I do not settle for anything less than I deserve and that's why I have the best people around me at the moment and I couldn't be any happier
• I had to relearn and parent myself in the sense that, I had to learn to become more confident as the things I went through had completely crushed my confidence, now I'm completely extroverted and I usually don't get bothered by trivial things
• I became a master at emotions, especially now that I'm in 12th grade and studying psychology, it's taught me a lot about human behaviour and how people will try to find your 'weak points' to manipulate you
• I learnt how to network and am now basically everyone's friend of a friend

HOW TO RECEIVE PRINCESS TREATMENT:

• Build connections - that's how socialites establish their status in the first place
• Become friends with everyone - be everyone's friend of a friend
• Start listing out what you desire in a relationship to the person you're on a date with, if they can't achieve this - they're out.
• Know your worth. Someone can't buy you basic things? Another person would buy you the moon if they could.
• Meet partners through the traditional way rather than dating apps, that way you can observe behaviour more easily and see if you're physically or emotionally attracted to them
• Expand your field
• Take yourself out on dates
• Look the part. To get princess treatment, you must look like a princess.
• Never change your personality, there is someone who is attracted to you because of that, if someone doesn't like it they can move along.
• Be grateful but not overly excited. For example, a girl is invited to a top restaurant by a guy and he pays for the most expensive meal there. The girl screams and takes 1000 pictures of the meal and states that she has never had 'rich people food', that is a HUGE NO, never do that, say thank you, show some joy, but do not be overly excited, it'll scare your partner off and you could potentially come off as a gold digger or even someone who doesn't know their worth - that's a huge NO NO here.
• Act like you know your stuff even when you don't
• Become the person you'd want to date, if you want someone who is compassionate and kind, you have to be like this yourself
• Show your respect in return, this is super important. No one wants to spoil someone rotten if they have a horrible attitude
• Hint at places you'd like to go to in the future with your partner. For example, if you want your honeymoon in Hawaii, mention Hawaii a few times in your conversation with your partner. If they're not too oblivious and it flies over their head, they'll probably get the memo and add that on their 'Notes to remember' list!
• Never settle for less than what you think you deserve
• Watch princesses, they are kind, graceful and elegant. Take these aspects and embody them. If you want to be treated like a princess, you should act like one.
• Repeat positive things to yourself
• Go where you think you'll find top tier partners
• Watch The Wizard Liz
• Become successful yourself, when you're successful, you're a magnet for people

You guys better incorporate this in your lives, there is no excuse! I'm watching you!

Lots of love,

Pr1na